[CMSC News] December 2024: 🎁 Giving Back to YOU: 30 Days of Self-Compassion + Join Us for a Free Year-End Renewal Retreat


Dear Wonderful CMSC Community,

Today is Global Giving Tuesday, a special day dedicated to supporting nonprofit organizations as they kick off their year-end fundraising efforts.

This year, we’re doing things a little differently. We are engaging in a "Global Giving Back Tuesday," and dedicating today—and this newsletter—to you. Instead of asking for donations or highlighting upcoming fee-based workshops, we want to take this opportunity to give back to you.

Your presence and generosity nurture CMSC's efforts in deepening our mission to alleviate human suffering and improve the collective well-being of the planet through the practice of self-compassion.

We are committed to accessible and effective self-compassion education and training and we are grateful for our growing community of 150,000 subscribers. Together, we’re helping more people worldwide experience the proven power of self-compassion

In the weeks ahead, we’ll share stories of the powerful impact your support has made possible and invite you to join us in our year-end fundraising efforts. Today, we want to connect with you and celebrate all that we’ve accomplished together.

I invite you to take a look at what we’ve prepared in appreciation, including our free year-end retreat, Renewal: Deepening Connection, Strengthening Resilience. I hope to see you there!

With care and gratitude,

Elijah Zimmerman
Executive Director

Vielen Dank • Muchas Gracias • Tack så mycket • Veel dank • Merci beaucoup
非常感谢你 • ありがとうございました • Thank you very much
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In Gratitude: Free Renewal 2024 Silent Mini-Retreats

Renewal: Deepening Connection, Strengthening Resilience. Free Live Online Silent Mini-Retreats

Saturday, December 28th, 2024
8:00 am - 11:00 am PT and 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm PT

Mindful Self-Compassion is transforming the global culture, offering an antidote to the challenges of our times. In practicing together, we create a collective resilience that strengthens each of us for all of us and extends far beyond our circles. Your presence and dedication fuel this mission, making it possible to bring compassion to those who need it most. We invite you to join us for this special Day of Self-Compassion.

These silent mini-retreats offer a calm, supportive space to slow down and reconnect—with yourself, with others, and with the present moment. Through mindful practices, quiet reflection, and shared silence, we’ll nurture resilience, cultivating the strength and clarity to approach life’s challenges with mindfulness and self-compassion.

Whether you’re new to these silent mini-retreats or have attended before, these sessions provide a quiet space for inspiration, reflection, renewal, and strengthening your resilience.

Open to the general public, the retreat will feature guided meditations from eight senior MSC teachers from around the world including MSC Co-Developer Chris Germer, hosts Angelike Dexter and Ben Weinstein, along with Carolina Bautista-Velez, Noriko Morita Harth, Lisa Baylis, Robyn Gobin, and David Fredrickson.

Come sit with our global community. All are welcome. No previous experience with meditation, mindfulness, or self-compassion required. ​And you're welcome to attend one, two, three or all six sessions.


Effects of Self-Compassion on Aggression and Its Psychological Mechanism Through Perceived Stress

Research continues to highlight self-compassion as a powerful tool for fostering emotional well-being, enhancing resilience, and deepening connections with ourselves and others. This study, Effects of Self-Compassion on Aggression and its Psychological Mechanism through Perceived Stress, adds to this growing body of knowledge by exploring how self-compassion can reduce aggression and mediate stress, offering valuable insights into how self-compassion practices can contribute to a more compassionate and harmonious world.


Meditation: Giving & Receiving Compassion with Laila Narsi, LCSW

"Giving and Receiving Compassion" is a beautiful MSC practice that invites us to balance the flow of compassion between ourselves and others. Certified MSC Teacher Laila Narsi offers this practice with warmth and wisdom, creating a space where participants can deeply connect with their innate capacity for kindness. Through her skillful guidance and soothing voice, this practice becomes a powerful reminder of the importance of nurturing both self-compassion and compassion for others. Laila’s dedication to this work is reflected in her commitment to supporting our Circles of Practice program as volunteer Co-Coordinator for the past four years. Thank you, Laila for your service.

Thank You for Your Support!
Free Resources

Free Online Streaming the Month of December
DEIB: Self-Love & Mindful Self-Compassion with Robyn Gobin, PhD

At the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion (CMSC), we are deeply committed to fostering a world where compassion, inclusion, and belonging thrive. Our DEIBJ (Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, Belonging, and Justice) initiative is at the heart of our mission, ensuring that everyone—regardless of background or identity—feels welcome and valued in our community.

This December, we invite you to stream for free the new DEIB Empowerment Workshop: Self-Love and Mindful Self-Compassion, presented by Dr. Robyn Gobin, presented this past May. In this transformative session, you’ll explore the power of self-love, resilience, and mindful self-compassion through engaging discussions and practical exercises, empowering you to embrace your unique worth and live authentically. Everyone is welcome—join us and take a step toward greater self-compassion and fulfillment.


Sign Up for Free 30-Days of Self-Compassion Phrases

In the busyness of daily life, it’s easy to forget the importance of speaking with kindness to ourselves. Self-compassion phrases—simple, heartfelt wishes or intentions to ourselves—can transform the way we navigate challenges, offering moments of solace, strength, encouragement, and connection. These empowering phrases help us pause, breathe, and reconnect with the compassion we so freely give to others. We invite you to sign up for a free email series during the month of December, "30 Days of Self-Compassion Phrases," with brief daily reminders based on the MSC Course to embrace kindness and care for yourself. Let these words of tender and fierce self-compassion serve as a guiding light, helping you approach life’s ups and downs with greater warmth and resilience.


My Self-Compassion Manifesto
by
Ana María Sáenz Velásquez

If you've participated in an MSC course, you know the value of listening to a poem after an exercise or meditation and how powerful it can be in settling our nervous system, deepening our awareness of self-compassion and helping us express what words alone often cannot. This creativity and depth are beautifully reflected in "My Self-Compassion Manifesto," written by Ana María Sáenz Velásquez, a recent graduate of MSC Teacher Training in Medellín, Columbia. Her words are a testament to the compassion, generosity, and creativity that make our community so special. At CMSC, we celebrate the many ways our community members share and express what they’ve learned from practicing MSC.

Here is an excerpt from Ana María’s inspiring manifesto. You can read the entire manifesto at the link below:

I give myself permission
to end the war,
to drop my shoulders, to lower my guard.
To soften my body and my words.
To move slowly and live awake.
I give myself permission now,
to open up to the world,
to recognize, remember, know,
and also to not know.
To feel, to cry and forgive,
to leave guilt outside,
and let cruelty wait forever.
I give myself permission
to call myself friend,
to look at myself in the mirror
and see all of me without judging.
To be vulnerable,
to let go of the useless struggle of
not accepting myself.

To read the entire poem and celebrate Ana María’s beautiful contribution to our community, click here.

If you've ever wondered why poetry is included in the MSC course, here is an insightful reflection from CMSC Co-Founder Chris Germer, shared during a "Teacher Learning Series" session, "On Poetry."

"Poetry is one of the five modalities of teaching MSC, along with guiding meditation, leading class exercises, teaching topics and conducting inquiry. So it really has a place of honor in MSC. We include poetry because self-compassion is a subtle quality of mind that needs to be accessed intuitively and experientially, and that's what we do in MSC. We don't just talk about self compassion. We invite people to a direct experience which is beyond words--an experience without too much thinking.
So, self compassion is a state of very subtle loving awareness. In my view, poetry helps this task by taking a common form of knowing and learning, which is language, and it drops our awareness into something that is beyond language. Poetry is about presence and movement, and beautifully, self-compassion training in MSC is also about presence, movement and transformation. So it's not just being, there's also movement, which is the nature of things, of change, right? So in MSC, mostly what we're doing is actually removing the obstacles to movement. We get stuck. We get stuck in funky, self-critical places. So we're actually removing the obstacles to movement and to loving ourselves more fully, especially in times of suffering.

Resources You May Have Forgotten About or Haven't Accessed Yet

Free Live Online MSC
Meditation Practice

Circles of Practice - Free Online Daily Meditations

Our MSC Circles of Practice program is a donation-based offering to our community and the public. CMSC offers 100 monthly free online daily practice sessions, all led by volunteer MSC teachers and supported by donations.These self-compassion meditation sessions are available on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis. Click on the links below to learn more and register for a session.

Join a session today:​

  • MSC Graduates (7x weekly) | Register
  • General Public (2x daily, open to all) | Register
  • LGBTQI2S+ Affinity Circle (weekly) | Register
  • BIPOC Affinity Group (weekly) | Register
  • Hispanohablantes / Spanish speakers (weekly) | Register
  • Men’s Practice (monthly) | Register
  • SCHC Alumni Group (monthly | Register

We Want to Celebrate You. Share Your MSC Experience and Help Others Who Need to Hear What Only You Can Say

Your journey with Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) has the power to inspire and uplift others. Whether MSC has helped you navigate challenges, deepen your self-awareness, or cultivate greater kindness toward yourself, your experience could be exactly what someone else needs to hear. We invite you to share your MSC story—big or small—by filling out this simple form. We also want to celebrate you and share you with our community. Share your story here.

The Center for Mindful Self-Compassion is an international nonprofit organization that serves over 250,000 people in our global community. We are dedicated to alleviating suffering and improving the collective well-being of the planet through scientifically researched self-compassion training and practice. Our vision is a world where each person matters and everyone belongs. Your donations allow us to share self-compassion training around the world and keep Circles of Practice free to those in need. Thank you in advance for any support you are inspired to donate.

Center for Mindful Self-Compassion

The Center for Mindful Self-Compassion is an international nonprofit organization dedicated to alleviating suffering and improving the collective well-being of the planet through self-compassion training and practice. Our vision is a world where each person matters and everyone belongs. We welcome your presence. Join us at www.centerformsc.org

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